When we lived in Huntersville, North Carolina, I went to the gym twice per week before work. My schedule alternated from cardio to swimming to a good strength session with Mike, my fitness trainer.
Life was good.
Except in January.
I remember going to the gym on the first working day in January, and the place was packed. To my surprise, my treadmill, the one I always used, was occupied by a slightly obese (I have to stay nice here) gentleman who I had never seen before.
“Fitness tourists,” Mike said.
I hadn’t noticed Mike had walked up and stood next to me while I was observing the place packed with people I had never seen before. Most of them dressed in brand new sports clothing, sweating like pigs (I’m sorry, but that’s the expression).
“Don’t worry, Erik, by the end of the month, they’re gone,” Mike continued.
Mike explained this was the same ritual every January. People following through on their New Year’s resolutions until they give up.
Some within a week, some within a month.
Mike’s rough estimation was that out of every ten new clients, one would eventually follow through and build a successful fitness routine. The large majority gives up.
We’ve all been there at some point. Haven’t we?
We’ve all been some type of fitness tourist at any point in our life: smoking, alcohol, losing weight, call friends and family more often, less screen time, less social media, less email, you name it.
And more often than not, we don’t succeed.
Willpower alone is not sufficient to transform
Any habit guru, and we have many of them these days, will tell you that you most likely will not succeed by sheer willpower.
The odds are against you.
Creating a sustainable transformation, in this case, a healthier lifestyle, is a journey. It’s not sufficient to show up at the gym on January 2nd thinking that your life has changed now.
Bears on the road
Whatever change we’re trying to accomplish in our lives, we will always be confronted by obstacles.
Or, as we say in Dutch, you will most likely “meet a few bears on the road” towards your destination.
Any transformation is the result of a deliberate and thought-through process. A process that will help maximize the chances for success, minimize the number of obstacles and overcome those obstacles you meet on the way.
10 golden rules for invaluable transformation
Over the past weeks, I worked on my 10 golden rules for invaluable transformation.
That’s the working title for now.
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These 10 golden rules are my process of helping you to get the transformation you’re looking for.
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Do more of what makes you happy. Also in 2021.